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Analysis: Combative Obama finds subdued Romney

 

WASHINGTON (AP) — President Barack Obama came ready Monday for a fighting finish, deriding Mitt Romney as reckless and overmatched in world affairs. Instead he found a subdued challenger who was eager to agree and determined to show he was not a warmonger.

Romney starkly moderated his tone and his approach in the closing debate. Playing it safe, he tried not to unnerve undecided voters who are wary of another U.S.-led war, or to upend a race that remains remarkably tight with two weeks to go.

No moment was more telling than when Romney had a clear opening to respond to Obama’s lecture that he was wrong and irresponsible on foreign affairs. He responded by giving his five-point plan for fixing the economy, leading to a bizarre exchange that took the debate wildly off topic.

It showed how much the commander in chief was in his comfort zone, where the challenger regretted that he was not in his.

The last debate turned into a mirror of the first one, when Romney had been the aggressor and Obama was intent not to fiercely challenge him. Even in trying to outline differences with Obama, Romney often started by agreeing with him. Suddenly, it was Romney the Republican who was talking about supporting economies abroad, while Obama the Democrat warned against nation-building.

From drones to Afghanistan to Syria, Romney and Obama spoke in agreement on goals, if not strategy.

The president’s biggest vulnerability — last month’s deadly assault on the U.S. Consulate in Libya, and all the unanswered questions that surround it — barely surfaced. Romney seemed to pass on the opportunity to assail Obama’s leadership and shifting messages on the attack.

Obama accomplished portraying himself as a world leader, facing a former governor who he said had offered positions that sent a mixed, and unsettling, message to allies and the American people.

He did so at times mockingly, but faced little fire in return.

“I know you haven’t been in a position to actually execute foreign policy, but every time you’ve offered an opinion, you’ve been wrong,” Obama told Romney.

He needled Romney the businessman for complaining that today’s Navy is smaller now than at any time since 1917, trying to hold Romney up as ignorant and unfit for the job.

“Well, governor, we also have fewer horses and bayonets because the nature of our military’s changed. We have these things called aircraft carriers, where planes land on them.”

Romney’s clearest points were to try to turn Obama’s most aggressive moments against him, and to outline a more comprehensive strategy for combatting the extremism that has roiled the Middle East and North Africa. Even then, his tone stood out. Politely.

“Well, of course I don’t concur with what the president said about my own record and the things that I’ve said,” he said. “They don’t happen to be accurate. … Attacking me is not an agenda.”

With the race extremely tight and several states hanging in the balance, Romney sought to show he was reassuring, poised and in essence, presidential.

Yet he seemed to lose some of the edge that gave his campaign a bump in the first debate.

Trying to capitalize on the mood of voters, Obama has campaigned as the leader who ends the wars, not the guy who begins new ones. Romney tried to combat that by saying, for example, that he would not get the United States involved militarily in Syria even though he wants to find a way to arm the opposition.

Yet millions of viewers at home were often left to discern exactly how much Romney and Obama differ in a world of diplomacy that is enormously difficult and nuanced.

Before the debate, Romney aides said they believed viewers would, above all, be looking for Romney to demonstrate leadership and confidence. His answers often appeared driven to show he understand the regions, players and challenges at play instead of undermining the president’s positions on them.

The moderate Romney was dominant.

On Afghanistan, for example, Romney said he also would bring troops home by 2014. Often, though, Romney would agree in principle before saying he would have executed differently.

Romney congratulated the president on killing Osama bin Laden, for example, but then said, “We can’t kill our way out of this mess.” He agreed that sanctions were hurting Iran, but then said he would have initiated them sooner than Obama did. Romney also said he agreed with Obama’s decision to stop supporting Egyptian leader Hosni Mubarak — “I supported (Obama’s) action there” — but said he would have been more “aggressive” in trying to encourage democracy.

After a whole year in which foreign affairs has been the undercard of the campaign fight, it got its moment with the stakes right where they should be — high.

The presidency is about the world even during inward-looking times. Currency standoffs with China, nuclear showdowns with Iran and military tensions around the globe affect the economy and security of the United States.

The debate season ended with Romney looking like he wanted to get off the stage and back on the economy. That, ultimately, is where this election will be settled.

 

An AP New Analysis

 
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Posted by on October 23, 2012 in BLACK Corner

 
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Inspiration Sunday: Be Thankful For Every Struggle

 
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Posted by on October 21, 2012 in BLACK Corner

 

Inspiration Sunday: Strength For Today…

 

 

 

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me…

When you realize that God gave you the strength to do what you do, it makes you  Live & Love,

                    Give & Forgive,

                                Listen & Learn,

                                        Work & Sacrifice,

                                                Speak & Communicate

                                                       with more Passion & Purpose.

 

If God gave you the Responsibility, He has also given you the Ability.

I just want to encourage you by reminding you that YOU CAN DO IT! You will have challenges and setbacks, but YOU CAN DO IT! People may doubt it, discourage you but YOU CAN DO IT!

 

Where He guides, He also provides and Today He’s provided you with an inspirational message and reminder. GET UP and do what He’s strengthened you to do.

-D.H.Dawkins,Sr.-

 

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Black Hair Styles

Natural Hair

While some stylists use the term natural hair to refer only to Afros, others use the term for any hair style without chemical treatment, including Afros, updos and all types of braids. Since the chemicals used to straighten and relax black hair can be damaging to the locks as well as to the scalp, many people prefer a natural approach. It allows the hair to grow longer since it is undamaged and can also be combined with hair extensions.

Straw Set

If you are transitioning to a natural hair style from a chemical treated look, consider a straw set. In a straw set, you use drinking straws or small perm rollers to wrap your hair in ringlets.

1.Once you have shampooed and conditioned your hair, wrap small sections around the straws and secure it with hair pins.

2.Dry your hair under low heat with a bonnet hair dryer, or with very low, diffused heat with a hand dryer.

Roller Wrap Set

Roller wrap sets are a great way to get large, loose curls without damaging the hair with heat styling. This is a very popular styling method for many African American women as black hair tends to be very fragile. For large curls or waves, use large rollers to roll your clean, damp, conditioned hair. Dry your hair under low heat with a hooded dryer. When it is completely dry, you can remove the rollers and brush the hair into smooth waves.

You may find these smooth natural black hair styles easier if you use one of the “natural” relaxers available on the market such as Naturalaxer.

                  

Double Strand Twist

Double strand twists are one of the most popular types of natural black hairstyles. This style can also give hair a break from everyday styling damage, as the twists are typically left in for a few days or weeks. Double twisting the hair is simple.

1.Part the hair into small sections all over the head, approximately one inch in size.

2.Place a small amount of oil on the hair and separate in half.

3.Cross the two pieces of hair over each other and pull tightly. Continue this process until the entire length of hair has been twisted.

4.Secure the end of the twist with a hair tie. Repeat this process until the entire head has been twisted.

Dreadlocks

Dreadlocks are popular hairstyles for many African American men and women. Dreadlocks are created when wet hair and a small amount of natural products are twisted together multiple times until the hair naturally stays in a locked form. When dreadlocks are put in the hair it will become matted and the locks will stay in place for a long time. The only drawback with this hairstyle is that they are nearly impossible to remove and usually need to be cut out.

Relaxed or Straightened Black Hair Styles

The chemical processes used to relax hair can make for beautiful sleek tresses, but they can also cause dryness, thinning and breakage. If you have your hair chemically relaxed, make sure you discuss the best shampoos and conditioners for your situation with your stylist; some leading black hair stylists recommend Nexxus hair products as well as the Dudley product line.

If you desire long and lustrous straight black hair styles, remember that there is no miracle pill for hair growth and that every process to which you subject your hair has an impact on it. Relaxers, hot curlers, hot combs, and color can all damage your hair and using more than one of these can make the problems exponentially worse. If you are planning to color and perm, you should always do your perm first or the color is likely to change dramatically.

Since straightening your hair removes elasticity from the hair shafts, the straighter your hair is, the more fragile it will become. If you want it bone straight, you will have the best success with very short styles. On the other hand, if you are relaxing but leaving a fair amount of curl in place, you can successfully have a longer hair style.

Braids

The different types of braided black hair styles available are nearly limitless. However, there are a few more popular braid options for African American hair.

•Cornrows: Cornrows are small, tight plaits, close to the scalp that are popular on both men and women. Cornrows are typically left in the hair for weeks or months at a time.

•Micro Braids: Micro braids are very tiny braids that are done to either just the root of the hair, or all of the hair. In many cases micro braids are so small, they are not noticed by the naked eye. These braids can be left in the hair for months.

•Tree Braids: Tree Braids are slightly larger than micro braids. They are small, noticeable, three strand braids that are done to the hair in small sections. These braids should only be left in the hair for a few weeks at most.

A lubricant, such as Aveda Humectant Pomade, is usually used for the twist. Of course, braiding is an art and it takes a substantial amount of time. Make sure you find someone you trust and that they understand the style you are going for. If often helps to look at pictures to indicate the style you are seeking before your stylist starts. When you wash your braids, make a diluted shampoo and water solution and work it gently into your braids. Then, use your shower to work it first through, then out of your hair. Repeat the same technique with your conditioner.

Keep in mind that braids can stress your hair; if they are put in too tightly, the hair is constantly pulled at the roots and this can result in breakage.

Extensions

Extensions are popular hair choices for many African American women, mainly because growing out black hair can be very difficult due to its naturally dry and brittle nature. Extensions can be added to black hair in a number of ways.

Micro Braiding Extensions

Micro braiding is a very popular method of adding extensions to black hair. In this process, natural hair is partially micro braided and then extensions are added to the braid. Extensions can be left unbraided, or be completely braided, depending on the preference of the individual.

Fusion

Fusion hair extensions are less popular with African American hair, but this method can be used on black hair if necessary. With this method, hair extensions are fused to natural hair with protein bonds. This is generally not recommended for women with extra brittle hair.

Weaving

Hair weaving is possibly the most popular for African American women. In this process, a corn row or track is created around the head, right on the scalp. The extensions are then sewn onto the tracks. Then the real hair covers the track where the extensions are sewn in. Essence magazine has a gallery on African American hair weaves for pictures on how natural hair weaves can look.

 

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http://hair.lovetoknow.com/Black_Hair_Styles

 

 

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ESNAVI IS FIRST AFRICAN-AMERICAN FACE FOR ALISON RAFFAELE

 

 

R&B singer/songwriter – ESNAVI celebrated the release of her newest beauty campaign with Alison Raffaele Cosmetics (ARC) on September 25, 2012 at the contemporary MarX Restaurant located in Midtown Manhattan, located at 208 East 58th Street. As the 1st African-American face endorsing the brand, ESNAVI introduced music, fashion, and beauty fanatics to “Skintone 7″ – ARC’s reality based True Concealer. As part of the presentation, guests were delighted by a 20 minute performance from the vivacious singer, makeup tips and samples by ARC, nail polish by Dazzle Dry, pastries from Delightful Cake Kreation and cocktails courtesy of 1800 Coconut Tequila.

Esnavi has quickly become an independent powerhouse in a short amount of time. Although new to the mainstream, Esnavi has been on her mission for years. As a very young child, her performing and writing skills were cultivated and now the industry has taken notice of this rising star. With the release of her highly acclaimed album, Exit E, Esnavi is taking her career to the next level.

She has performed at ESSENCE Music Festival during a live broadcast on Sirius XM Satellite Radio, headlined in front of a sold out crowd at Apollo Music Café, performed on Good Day New York morning show on FOX 5 NEWS, sang The National Anthem at the IZOD Center for the Harlem Globetrotters World Tour, performed at BAMcafé Live (Brooklyn Academy of Music) and has secured a music licensing deal with H&M, Old Navy, Abercrombie & Fitch, Nine West, Ann Taylor and Arden B stores worldwide.

As her most recent accomplishment, Esnavi is making history as the first African-American face for Alison Raffaele Cosmetics beauty campaign, a cosmetics line that will be carried in all Duane Reade stores nationwide, which launched in Puerto Rico in May, and will launch in New York City this Fall.

“Launched in 2008, Alison Raffaele Cosmetics is the first brand to blend high performance, easy-to-use cosmetics with eco-friendly, treatment-oriented formulations.” The foundation upon which the brand was built is that a woman’s true beauty comes from within and it’s through the pursuit of those dreams that encourages beauty to shine through. ESNAVI truly exemplifies what is means to “Live Beautiful”.

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Mychal Sledge- Community Activist, Writer & Motivational Speaker

Mychal Sledge

Mychal Sledge is the co-founder and the CEO of The Sledge Group Inc., a unique non-profit community based, family-oriented program, which provides male and female adolescent mentoring groups, tutorial services and a support network for the parents of the youth who participate. The Sledge Group, Inc. strives to empower, uplift and provide positive influence in the lives of urban youth.

Mychal is a servant of God, a husband and father. He is a community activist, changed agent, a published writer. He is also an inspirational and motivational speaker, available for speaking engagements and workshops covering a myriad of topics. Mychal has been on the forefront of the Black Male initiative.

An accomplished martial artist, Mychal is a national and international martial arts champion. He has traveled the world as an elite member of the United States Karate Team, winner of several National and International Championships including two gold medals in the Pan-American Games. He attained unprecedented status by being listed in the World Almanac five consecutive years.

The journey that has led Mychal Sledge to become the man he has grown to be today is not only intriguing, but extremely remarkable. He is at a place in life where he is comfortable enough to share his story in an effort to help others avoid similar pitfalls and to empower them to search within themselves for the strengths needed to succeed.

His essay, “My Brother’s Keeper” was featured in the male version of collected essays from the authors of the best-seller, “Souls of My Sisters”. “Journey into My Brothers”, released in May 2007. Mychal is currently working on his autobiography entitled, “The Life I Live Today Is Not My Own”, which will also be published in the near future.

Q&A with Mychal Sledge:

BS: What challenges have you encountered as a community activist? How did you handle them?

Mychal Sledge: I am a praying man and the challenges are pretty much the same in all our communities. Wake our people up to see that our problems are really spiritual in nature. Getting the families to do a better job of raising our children.

BS: What is your greatest strength? How will your greatest strength help you perform?

Mychal Sledge: My greatest source of strength comes from Almighty God, I’ve been given a gift to lead and teach by example.

The ability to reach the young and the unborn has allowed me to move mountains. My supportive wife pushes me to great lengths and my children drive me to ” No Limits”

BS: Which was your most rewarding experience?

Mychal Sledge: Watching the effect of The Sledge Group, on my family. Children do what they see, not always what they hear. They have watched my wife and I live ” Community” and giving back Daily.

BS: What inspired you to create The Sledge Group Inc? What type of programs do you offer?

Mychal Sledge: The Sledge Group, Inc is a God Given Program that was placed in my Wife (Debra Sledge) and my spirit to start.

We were both taught to do something about a problem. We were taught you are part of the problem if you do nothing!

Free Mentoring, one-on-one and group

Free tutorial Programs, Free parent support Groups, Food and clothe drives annual for the past 14 years.

BS: Where did your interest in writing initiate? What can we look forward to when reading your published work?

Mychal Sledge: I always wrote as child and love words. Working on Affirmation and Empowerment Books.

Also “The Life I Live Today is Not My Own”

BS: As a motivational speaker, what key issues do you touch on?

Mychal Sledge: Life and doing something about it besides complaining. A myriad of topics: social services including youth development, mentorship programs, HIV prevention, substance abuse awareness, court advocacy, crisis intervention, anger management and many other programs which address the issues affecting our community.

BS: How important is Mentoring to you? Has it played a vital role in your life?

Mychal Sledge: I had Mentors as a child and still have a mentor today. Various men guided me thru the Martial Arts from the age of 10 years. I come from a two family household. Simple put Mentors saved and changed my Life. I am strong advocate for Mentoring both in community and corporate .

BS:  What are you passionate about? How you continue to develop yourself and your skills?

Mychal Sledge: Very passionate about Life and making a difference while I am still alive.

Very Passionate about educations and self- educating.

Very Passionate about our youth, manhood, fatherhood, families- injustice and corruption.

Touching one person and watching it spread.

Love is one of the greatest Gifts from God. Staying teachable and reading and praying are my secrets to self-development. Self education as well.

BS: How do you determine or evaluate success?

Mychal Sledge: Success is looking back on where I came from and who I am today and I get really excited about what Almighty God is going to do next in my Life and others around me. Its not money but spiritual growth as a human being.

 

Mara – The Hip-Hop Socialite

 

Former Intellectual Property attorney, sometime model, current celebrity journalist/blogger and urban media personality. You can find Mara’s work in Parle Magazine, and on websites such as YoRaps.com, HHLO.net, RollingOut.com, and DrJays.com (Live). The Wilmington, NC native has interviewed and written stories on what reads like a “who’s who” of R&B, hip-hop and urban entertainment, including Jadakiss, Maino, Grandmaster Caz, style icon June Ambrose, Kalenna Harper (Diddy Dirty Money), Tami Roman, Olivia, and Kandi Burruss.

In early 2009, Mara joined Street Disciplez Radio as co-host, joining the show’s creator and host, former hip-hop emcee turned media personality, Ei8ht. Street Disciplez Radio has generated headlines on many media outlets, including HipHopWired.com, MediaTakeOut.com, AllHipHop.com, SOHH.com, BET.com, XXLMag.com, TheYBF.com, Bossip.com, VIBE.com, NecoleBitchie.com, OzoneMag.com, and many, many more. Past guests of Street Disciplez Radio include Meagan Good, Natalie Nunn, Bobby Brown, Scarface, Def Jam executive Sha Money XL, actor Ving Rhames, Tashera Simmons, Felicia “Snoop” Pearson (“The Wire”), French Montana, Capone and Noreaga, Consequence, west coast hip-hop legend Too $hort, and many more. Currently syndicated on the web, Street Disciplez Radio airs on multiple sites every Monday and Wednesday night from 8:30pm to 10:30pm.

In the summer of 2011, Mara was selected to serve as Managing Editor of popular lifestyle/entertainment webzine, CherryOnTop.com (the brainchild of NYC radio personality, Cherry Martinez of Power 105.1 FM). With Mara at the helm, CherryOnTop.com has generated headlines on TheYBF.com, SOHH.com, Bossip.com, VIBE.com,TheHuffingtonPost.com, VIBEVixen.com and on many other popular media outlets.

The Renaissance woman also pens a column, “The Adventures of the Hip-Hop Socialite…”, for One-Ten Magazine, which is scheduled for relaunch in the summer of 2012.. Earlier this year marked another milestone in Mara’s career, as she began hosting the “60-Second Scoop” on North Carolina’s Coast 97.3 FM (Cumulus Media), Michigan’s WHPR FM 88.1, and NYC’s DaMatrixStudios.com.

Mara has also hosted her own internet series, “Scene & Heard TV”, which generated the kind of headlines that many have come to expect of the proud southern belle.  As an urban media personality, Mara has been featured in RollingOut.com, ForbezDVD.com, GGurls.com, Femmixx.com, and other outlets.

Q & A with Mara The Hip-Hop Socialite:

BS: What made you leave your profession as an attorney to pursue a career in media?

Shamara McKoy: To be perfectly honest with you, I never pictured myself practicing law for the rest of my life. I’ve always been passionate about writing, but I knew I probably would not make much money from it. Nevertheless, when I relocated to NYC after graduating from the law school at Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, NC, I decided to make a go of it after working as a lawyer for almost 2 years. I’ve always been obsessed with pop culture, so working in the media world made perfect sense. It merges two of the things I love: writing and pop culture.

BS: How would you describe your work style?    

Shamara McKoy: Organized chaos. I can be all over the place, but I manage to always get things done.

BS: Tell me about your proudest achievement.  What inspires you?

Shamara McKoy: Although I’m no longer in the law field, earning my law degree is my proudest achievement.

I’m inspired by my nieces. With all the foolishness that’s going on on TV and just everywhere, it’s important to me that I model the behavior, morals, work ethic, and beliefs that I want them to possess. It inspires me to go hard and always carry myself in a way that influences them in a positive way.

BS: What do you ultimately want to become? 

Shamara McKoy: Eventually, I want to be a radio personality that’s recognized on a national level. I want to get the book I’m working on published at some point, and I although I’m already a pop culture commentator, I would like to take it to the next level by landing television appearances to provide commentary on everything pop culture!

BS: Who has impacted you most in your career and how? 

Shamara McKoy: Wow, there are quite a few people who have impacted my career. I can’t name one without naming them all, so I’ll leave it at that.

BS: What’s the most important thing you learned about yourself so far?  What is your personal mission statement?   

Shamara McKoy: Relocating to NYC and managing to make a life for myself here has taught me just how strong I am. It wasn’t easy by far.

I don’t have a personal mission statement per se, I just believe that hard work and faith (in God) will get you everywhere.

BS: Who are your role models and why?

Shamara McKoy: My mom and my dad (of course). Their work ethic is something like I’ve never seen! My dad worked 30+ years for a particular company, and he rarely missed a day. He actually retired in 2001, but he grew tired of sitting at home, and got another job working for a school. My mom is the same way. They’re just hard workers, and succeeded in giving my siblings and I the kind of childhood any kid would hope for. They’ve worked very hard on their marriage as well – in July, they celebrated their 41st wedding anniversary! They’re both very happy!

When it comes to this industry, I adore Cathy Hughes. I’ve never had the pleasure of meeting her, but her career in media (particularly radio) is a major motivator for me.

BS: What techniques and tools do you use to develop yourself?   

Shamara McKoy: I’m an avid reader, and one of the things I do while I’m reading is write down words that I stumble across that I don’t often use. I then write down their definitions (if I don’t know it already) and incorporate those words into my own writing.

I’m hoping to participate in more writing workshops. I’m always trying to improve my skills as a writer, and participating in whatever workshops I come across is a big part of that.

BS: What projects are you a part of now?  What can we expect from you in the near future?

Shamara McKoy: Right now, I’m focused on my radio bit, “The 60 Second Scoop with the Hip-Hop Socialite”. It’s 60 seconds of the latest celebrity interviews, gossip, and/or details on the hottest events. The “Scoop” was launched earlier this year, and it’s featured interviews with everyone from rapper Ca$h Out, to Tami Roman (“Basketball Wives”), to Momma Dee (“Love & Hip-Hop: Atlanta”). It’s done quite well in the radio markets that air it down south, and I recently landed a sponsor (t-shirt company Optic Verbiage, http://www.OpticVerbiage.com). The “Scoop” has already made headlines everywhere from The Urban Daily to Bossip. It’s something I created, with my name on it, produced by my production team, Da Matrix Studios in NYC. I’m quite proud of it. I’m looking forward to additional radio stations picking it up and adding it to their programming. I’m extremely grateful to my family at Coast 97.3 FM in North Carolina because they were the first station to give the “Scoop” a chance.

I also pen a column called “The Adventures of the Hip-Hop Socialite” for One Ten Magazine. It will be re-launched in December in the winter issue of One Ten.  And of course, I’m still Managing Editor of CherryOnTop.com, a lifestyle/entertainment webzine that’s the brainchild of Power 105.1 FM radio personality, Cherry Martinez.

 

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“If I Had A Father”- The Importance Of Fathers in Children’s Lives

If I Had A Father

“To educate a man in mind and not in morals is to educate a menace to society.”

-Theodore Roosevelt

A new school year has started and the process of education is important once again in this nations schools. The educational system of this country is at a cross roads between continuing to be re-actional to the changes in society or proactive to saving youth from lives of poverty, unemployment and the media expectations of youth dropping out of school and becoming a part of a criminal justice system. What can be done to change the direction potential educational failures and societal rebellion of youth?

If I Had A Father; represents a dynamic of the involvement of fathers in children lives. This is not a specific cultural challenge it is a national goal to have fathers involved in their children’s education. History and society judges fathers by the behavior of their children, the choices children make in life and the outcomes. A father posses historical significance and importance in the shaping and molding of young minds, guiding emotions and influencing generational success, struggles, failures and even death. What could be worse than a physical death? The emotional death of children that a father does not care, does not understand and witnessing a father disrespect the mother that brought them into the world. Fathers must establish a foundation for a relationship with their children- An understanding with fathers for interaction that grows from love, discipline, consistent involvement and respect.

Fatherhood does not automatically mean that a man is going to be a responsible parent. A man has to want to be a responsible father, there is more to child rearing than creating a child, impregnating a woman or being a sperm donor.

“…parents must keep reminding their children about how important they are.”

-Archie Talley

Educational Needs

Fathers set the foundation for excellence, raise the expectations that children are smart, intelligent and worth educating. Teach children that success is not always making big sums of money, driving fancy cars or wearing expensive clothes. Success also means obtaining a quality education to provide for self and one day family. Education is the key to continued self growth and reliability on skills/talents and not dependent on the government to provide. The Bible says in Hosea 4:6, “My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge.” Fathers guard your children away from negativity and ignorance and guided them to knowledge of their individual talents, skills and abilities. Malcolm X stated as it applies to the 21st century, “Education is our passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today.” Fathers remember your children will not stay children forever so fathers/daddies must help prepare their children for the Boardrooms, Courtrooms, Classrooms, Conference rooms, Presidential rooms, Mayoral rooms, Senatorial rooms and Surgical rooms of this country and world. In these economic turbulent times stated by Bob Wise, President of the Alliance for Excellent Education, “The best economic stimulus package is a diploma,” fathers make a difference in the direction their children will take in school.

If I had A Father has become both an excuse and reason for failure for children. The lack of a father is more of a death sentence for fathers that are not involved because their children will execute them from their lives emotionally, psychologically and socially. A father that does not value his children is a man that creates damnation on his family history and heritage. Children are incarcerated mentally, jailed socially and emotionally blaming their life circumstances on “If I Had A Father.” The darkest depths of loneliness in a child’s heart because their father was not there for them. Having experienced this myself, the only way I survived this emotional death, this potential inner self destruction was to build myself up to try and be a good father for my children. Even though divorced, I did not divorce my children; I did not divorce my responsibilities to my son and daughter I did not commit fathercide to my children by leaving them.

Fathers Impact of Involvement

Fathers, Daddies, Stepfathers need to be involved in their children’s lives, spending more time with children will help keep children from dropping out of school, engaging in multiple sex partners and experimenting with drugs. Research from the University of Maryland (2000) indicates that, “children who have fathers or father figures in their lives learn better, have higher self-esteem and show fewer signs of depression”.

Fathers affect discipline, academic achievement, and social relationships in a child’s educational environment. “…children who identified a father or father figure scored higher on basic learning skill tests and had a stronger sense of competence and social acceptance compared to children without fathers” (University of Maryland Medical News, 2000). Culturally ALL races are equally affected by the presence and absence of fathers in children’s lives. This is not just a Black, Hispanic or other cultural issue.

JCCI Study and E3 Forums

JCCI (Jacksonville Community Council Inc.) study shows the affects of absence fathers in children’s lives and it’s impact on infant mortality, educational success and poverty levels of children. The statistical evidence that the absence of responsible and mature fathers contributes to continued poverty of children, increase involvement of juveniles in criminal behavior, increased dropout rates among school age youth and infant mortality rates similar to that of third world nations JCCI – http://www.jcci.org/

The recent E3 Business Group Infant Mortality Making It Real and discussions about the fathers responsibility. These dialogues play an important part of the openness and honesty that needs to be displayed. http://www.youtube.com/user/e3businessgroup-Listen to the discussions from community members about fathers.

History and Heritage

Fathers your history, your heritage and your future presence either positive or negative rests within your commitment to be a real father. No one can make you do what you should do as a father. It is a responsibility that is only accountable through the efforts that you make. Fathers, consider if your children can afford for you not to be involved, will their potential be missed, the course of their destinies missed because they were without your guidance and wisdom?

“A truly humble man is sensible of his natural distance from God; of his dependence on Him; of the insufficiency of his own power and wisdom; and that it is by God’s power that he is upheld and provided for, and that he needs God’s wisdom to lead and guide him, and His might to enable him to do what he ought to do for Him.”

-Edwards, Jonathan

Million Father March

A great quote by Dr. Eugene White, Superintendent over the Indianapolis Public School District stated, ”Fathers, take your children to school on the first day and don’t stop there. Become active in the education of your children all year long.’ Fathers across the country read these words, “All men, regardless of the skin you might be in, but especially Black men, can improve low-performing schools, increase graduations rated, lower jail sentences by getting involved in the education of their children.” If I Had A Father should not come out of the mouths of any child, they should not feel lost, forsaken or alone. Fathers, get involved, get active and get where you belong, with your children.

Written by:

William Jackson, M.Ed.

My Quest To Teach

Educator with Duval County Public Schools and Edward Waters College

 

THE MOST VALUABLE PLAYER- Melvin Van Peebles

BEFORE SPIKE 

Before Spike Lee, John Singleton, Antoine Fuqua, the Hughes brothers, the Wayans clan, F. Gary Gray and Tyler Perry-there was and still is Melvin Van Peebles. When it was confirmed that I would be interviewing Mr. Van Peebles, my hands began to sweat.  What in the world could a fledgling writer asked this seasoned man?  Excuse me, this genius… Icon?  What questions could I possibly ask Melvin Van Peebles that he hasn’t been asked before?  I mean the man is 80-years old.

He’s lived in Paris, Chicago, Mexico and the Big Apple.  He speaks French, Spanish, and Dutch and studied Astronomy at the University of Holland.  In addition to all these great talents, Melvin Van Peebles is a world renowned filmmaker, honored with The Legion D’Honneur, France’s highest honor for the arts, painter, sculptor, composer, innovator, philanthropist and the originator of rap.  Yes- Melvin Van Peebles or MVP as his close friends call him is ALL of that and then some.

Just in case you’re wondering, why am I interviewing Melvin Van Peebles?  What has he done lately?  The question instead,should really be ‘What is Melvin Van Peebles not doing?’  Melvin is like the sun. Even when you don’t see him, he’s still shining.  The man is mentoring and teaching future filmmakers here and abroad. He is still creating, writing stories and does a show, called Melvin Van Peebles Wid Laxative (because MVP don’t take no shit).

In this production, MVP sings original songs, tells stories the way only he can, and just has himself a good o’l time.  He’s backed by the fellas from Burnt Sugar, carries with him on stage a giant book that looks like a bible from a distance…  and he does the zampougie!

ANYBODY HUNGRY?

I arrived at Mr. Van Peebles’ place late, scared and embarrassed.  But the show must go on.  I prepared 21 questions to ask him. They were cheeky, well researched and to the point.  At least I thought so.  I couldn’t find my words- “HELLO!  YOU ARE SITTING AND SPEAKING TO THE MELVIN VAN PEEBLES!” was all I could hear in my head.  “GET IT TOGETHER MADAFI AND ASK YOUR DAMN QUESTIONS!”  I ask the first question, the second, then the third, and upon asking the question after that- my lesson began.  Melvin Van Peebles is the truth, tells the truth and sometimes naughty jokes.  At times it may be a little hard to decipher when he’s serious or not, but if you really listen, you’ll catch it.

‘What inspired you to be a filmmaker?’  “Hunger.”  “Hunger?” I asked.  His response seemed too simple for me.  I thought he was pulling my leg, but he was serious.  Millions of people around the world know who and what Melvin Van Peebles has done.  Yet, millions more don’t know the beginning of his story.  When Melvin was a young boy, he and his friends would go to the NRA Movie Theatre in Southside Chicago (also known as the National Rat Alley Movie Theatre to the kids), and watch all types of movies.  But the Black films touched him a little bit more than the others.  The characters, the dialogue and the plots annoyed young Melvin.

DO – OVER

As my interview continued, I committed the first sin of journalism: Thou shall not interrupt your subject.  I know better.  Yet, something came over me and I lost myself.  And like a good sansei, Melvin Van Peebles put me in check, or as we say down south, read me my rights.  “Look, you’re a smart girl.  Don’t ask me trivial questions.  Ask me questions with meat.”  The last thing you want to hear as a writer is that your questions are trivial.  Still, truth be told, maybe that’s exactly what I needed to hear.  The zing I felt from that statement hurt and I wanted to redeem myself.  Discussing and learning from Melvin Van Peebles was achance of a lifetime.  “Can we start over Mr. Van Peebles?”  “Yes.”  And so I did.

He said to ask questions with meat. Ask questions where which the answers could really teach the reader (that would be you) something new.  Once again my nerves started to act up, but I stepped over them and asked the question I’ve had ever since I saw Sweet Sweet Sweetback’s Bad Ass Song for the first time.  “How did you make it happen?  I mean, how did you really make this movie happen? ” Melvin sat back in his chair, took the cigar stump out of his mouth and looked at me.

COURAGE

Before Sweet Sweet Sweetback’s Bad Ass Song, Melvin Van Peebles made a movie in France called La Permission. Sweetback… was his third feature film.  It was shown in only two theatres at its release, one in Detroit and the other in Atlanta.  Melvin Van Peebles is so bad, that when the cinemas suggested that Sweetback… be run as a double feature, Mr. Van Peebles said absolutely not. He knew what he had.

Sweet Sweet Sweetback’s Bad Ass Song is definitely not your typical action or drama film, and certainly not in the style of the Blaxpoitation movies of that time.  This movie is what connoisseurs of film would call an Art House film.  Melvin Van Peebles and Sweet Sweet Sweetback’s Bad Ass Song did something Black films at the time had never done before.  He literally did everything. He wrote the screenplay, directed, edited it and wrote the score for it- all using his own money.

Sweetback… also gave the main character, who was a person of color- power.  Not some power, not make believe power, but the real thing.  Mr. Van Peebles made power moves in Hollywood that Black filmmakers had never done before.  Perhaps it was his destiny to have the initials M.V.P.

It takes a tremendous amount of courage to be Melvin Van Peebles.  That’s why his fans, family and friends love him so much.  They’ve all recognized that this man has been and is about something.  He is not one of those artists who will bow out gracefully and work on a project just because the pockets are tight.  No, Melvin Van Peebles has been kicking, screaming, laughing, loving, teaching and sharing for far too long to go out quietly. And quiet frankly, we won’t let him.  We love him too much.  He’s worth much more than gold and diamonds put together.  Melvin Van Peebles is more valuable than any pair of sneakers or headphones.  He is the icon, the myth and the legend… and he knows it.

Written by: Madafi Pierre

 
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Posted by on August 28, 2012 in BLACK Corner, BLACK Events

 

Kristen V. Carter – Screenwriter, Television Producer & Educator

Kristen V. Carter is a screenwriter, television producer, and educator from Newark, New Jersey. She has produced for a variety of cable’s top programs including MTV’s America’s Best Dance Crew, OWN’s My Mom is Obsessed, and Food Network’s Cupcake Wars. In addition, Kristen has served as a speech writer for Viacom executives, including BET’s CEO Debra Lee.

Kristen has a deep-rooted passion for entrepreneurship and content creation. In 2007, she founded JazziDreamer Entertainment LLC, a multimedia company specializing in writing, production, and consultation services. Through the company, she wrote, directed, and launched the six-episode web series Sellout, a story of an Ivy League graduate’s transition back to the inner-city after his mother’s death. The series, a first for JazziDreamer Entertainment LLC, garnered over 4,000 views during its 6-episode run. Since that time, Kristen has written three feature length screenplays and continues to develop scripted and non-scripted projects for tv, web, and film.

Kristen has won many awards for her professional and social achievements, including the Goldman Sachs Institute for Entrepreneurial Thinking National First Place Prize, the National Foundation for Teaching Entrepreneurship Award for Most Civic Minded Business, and the New York Women in Communications Scholarship. Most recently, Kristen took part in the 2011 Cosby Screenwriting Fellowship.

Whether it’s through screen or stage, her ultimate goal is to inspire the world through edutainment!

Websitewww.kristenvcarter.com

Q & A with Kristen V. Carter:

BS: What inspired you to create JazziDreamerEntertainment LLC?  How would you describe its success thus far? 

Kristen V. Carter: JazziDreamer Entertainment LLC is a media consultation and production company that I created in 2007, due to the number of independent clients I was gaining outside of my full time position. At the time I created the company, I was a show writer for a cable entertainment news show (BET’s The Black Carpet) and was being approached to write scripted tv pilots, treatments, episodic breakdowns, and press kits on the side. I wanted to start building a brand so the move to create a company was natural for me.

JazziDreamer Entertainment LLC has evolved in just the 5.5 years that it’s been established. Initially, I did a lot of media consulting and managed two recording artists – R&B singer Lance Drummonds and Lyricist/Photographer Blue – but as my writing grew, I realized I needed to solely focus on getting my productions off the ground.

BS: You are quite an accomplished screenwriter, television producer, and educator. Do you enjoy one more than the others?

Kristen V. Carter: I believe all three fields go hand in hand. I am very passionate about storytelling and connecting with people so that I can be a vessel to tell their stories in order to inspire others. Screenwriting is about putting a story on paper; producing is about finding out a person’s story and bringing it to life; education is about teaching those around you while sharing your experience and perspective. I am drawn to education because I believe our children need to know that they can achieve their dreams and see people in their community who are doing what they’d like to do.

BS: Describe some of your most important career accomplishments.

Kristen V. Carter: No one accomplishment is more ‘important’ than the other because they are all stepping stones but a few stand out to me; being accepted to the Cosby Screenwriting Fellowship, being selected for a scholarship by New York Women in Communications, traveling the country as a story producer for an OWN/Discovery Health production, and directing my first short film this past month.

BS: At what age did you begin to have an interest in writing?  What initiated your passion for writing?

Kristen V. Carter: I’ve kept journals and written poems, songs, and short stories all my life so I can’t even recall when I noticed that I loved writing. I’m curious to know what my mother or grandparents would say in regards to when they first noticed.  I began taking my writing more seriously during my junior year of high school, when I signed up for an Expository Writing Course. I realized at that time that I absolutely loved writing and wanted to write a feature film one day.

BS: What are your short-term/long-term goals?

Kristen V. Carter: I am currently editing my first short film entitled First Date, a drama about a woman’s emotional encounter with a ‘familiar stranger.’ My current goal is to complete post-production on the film and begin submitting to film festivals. I also want to complete the next draft of my feature film, and create a production collective which is simply a group of friends dedicated to assisting each other with getting their independent projects completed.

My long-term goals include creating a traveling curriculum where I visit various schools in the country to present interactive workshops on entrepreneurship and activating your goals. I am also actively seeking investors for my production work, so that I can launch a feature film project.

BS: Describe a time when you were faced with a challenging situation and how you handled it.

Kristen V. Carter: In 2009, the recession hit the production world pretty hard and most of the friends and colleagues I knew were sitting at home. That was a huge time of reevaluation for me because that was the very first time I had been faced with real doubt, insecurity and anxiety about my craft. I wasn’t inspired to write at all, and I questioned if I was good enough for my dream several times…finally, it dawned on me that I wasn’t going to get anywhere pouting in my living room. Initially, I was applying to all Writer positions and soon realized that when things shift, you also have to shift. I began applying for non-Production roles everywhere and wound up doing contract work for an international conference. As soon as I stepped outside of the box of ‘Why am I not getting what I want?,’ I started receiving what I wanted. Soon after, I received my first Writer/Associate Producer opportunity, which gave me access to becoming the writer and producer I am today.

BS: What motivates you? How do you motivate others?

Kristen V. Carter: Remembering how much my mom worked and sacrificed in order for me to enroll in every activity I was interested in inspires me.  When I complain about how hard I’m working, I remember that she worked three jobs while finishing school. That shuts me up right there…

My family motivates me. My community motivates me. I’ve had nothing but support as I continue to climb and I am so grateful for that.

How do I motivate others? I don’t know if you can know how you ‘motivate others.’ My gut response is just - by being myself and sharing my truth.  I believe it’s important to tell the entire story, not just the success but the stumbles to success. And even as I write this, there is still so much further to go so I am thankful to have my community on this journey with me.

BS: What are the best and worst aspects of your job?

Kristen V. Carter: The best aspect of my job is that it never feels like a job. I enjoy directing cast and crew, and laughing on set. It’s just fun. The worst aspect of my job is just the long hours. It’s something you get used to though so it comes with the territory.

BS: How would you describe your style of writing and directing?  How do you continue to develop your skills?

Kristen V. Carter: I’m still developing my style of writing and directing, as I consider myself a baby in this game. I love to comment on society with humor. If you can get an audience laughing while sticking some truth in their mouths, I think you’re on to something so I am constantly working on that.

I develop my skills by watching and reading great screenwriters and directors. Learning by observing– (and screwing up and getting back up!) - is the best way to develop skill.

BS: Have you ever been in a Writer’s Group for learning and/or support? Have mentors played a part in your success?

Kristen V. Carter: In 2011, I was accepted into the Cosby Screenwriting Fellowship, a 16 week program for emerging writers in film and scripted television. My class dynamic was similar to a writer’s group where we would turn in material every week and critique each other’s work. Now that the program has passed, my group still meets every other Tuesday to submit all kinds of material – web content, short film, feature, and tv spec scripts. Writers’ groups are extremely important in order to receive honest feedback from fellow writers who are dedicated to the craft and take writing seriously. 

It takes a village to raise a child, and I am a firm believer in that. I have many mentors who have paved the way and given me invaluable advice through the years. Mentors are huge is this business because it’s imperative to have someone who can vouch for your work ethic and talent. 

 

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